“A man cannot really be called (sexually) confident if he has never bought his woman a vibrator.”

~ Mokokoma Mokhonoana

SEX TOYS

Sex Toys for Adding Dimension to the Bedroom

Intimacy Coaching with Daka Dan

Toys, in my opinion, are an essential element in the bedroom whether in a solo practice or partnered. Studies have shown that most women (between 80% and 95% of women) do NOT have orgasm through penis and vagina (PiV) intercourse alone. Those numbers drastically improve when vibrators or fingers are used to stimulate the clitoris.

The fact is we use tools (aka toys) for everything in life to assist in or outright replace inadequate human abilities. Some women have shame around using toys, while some men feel emasculated if/when their female partners use vibrators or dildos. I’m here to rewrite that script by showing you toys that help and those that can hurt. There should be no shame when utilizing toys to further ones pleasure.

What to expect in private Sex Toys coaching sessions

Solo Practicing

  • Introduction to vibrators to reduce tiring and enhance pleasure
  • Introduction to internal toys to reach the elusive g-spot, a-spot and p-spot
  • Sensation toys that will bring arousal to the entire body and not just your genitals
  • Introduction to anal play, it really can be pleasurable when someone knows what they are doing and takes their time
  • Self-pleasuring practice as a way to retrain your pleasure centers and most past your pleasure ceiling
  • Lube is your friend and not a crutch, picking the right lube for the right situation

Request a 20 min FREE phone consultation

Partnered Practicing

Adding spice to your sex life with toys

  • Using vibration together to increase the odds of orgasm
  • How to use internal toys so your partner can help with your pleasure
  • Cock rings for his pleasure, but yours too
  • Electricity! How to introduce electricity to send your pleasure through the roof
  • Using lube to your advantage to ease the situation and more enjoyable sex
  • Anal? It isn’t for everyone, but many do like it and once you’ve relaxed enough you might too

To be tied up or not to be tied up for the artistry

  • Using rope or other bondage equipment to learn the value of submission
  • Being blindfolded to increase the senses in the rest of the body
  • Floggers, whips, canes to enhance the sensation in your body and bring you into subspace
  • Talons for a very pleasurable sensation to get you into your body

Tech, games and furniture

  • Introducing tech for those who want to increase the connection from abroad
  • Board games to spice up your entertainment for two or more
  • Sex furniture to ease into new positions you never thought possible
  • Using Porn for what it is intended – entertainment, not education

What to expect in private Sex Toys coaching sessions

Solo Practicing

  • Introduction to vibrators to reduce tiring and enhance pleasure
  • Introduction to internal toys to reach the elusive g-spot, a-spot and p-spot
  • Sensation toys that will bring arousal to the entire body and not just your genitals
  • Introduction to anal play, it really can be pleasurable when someone knows what they are doing and takes their time
  • Self-pleasuring practice as a way to retrain your pleasure centers and most past your pleasure ceiling
  • Lube is your friend and not a crutch, picking the right lube for the right situation

Request a 20 min FREE phone consultation

Partnered Practicing

Adding spice to your sex life with toys

  • Using vibration together to increase the odds of orgasm
  • How to use internal toys so your partner can help with your pleasure
  • Cock rings for his pleasure, but yours too
  • Electricity! How to introduce electricity to send your pleasure through the roof
  • Using lube to your advantage to ease the situation and more enjoyable sex
  • Anal? It isn’t for everyone, but many do like it and once you’ve relaxed enough you might too

To be tied up or not to be tied up for the artistry

  • Using rope or other bondage equipment to learn the value of submission
  • Being blindfolded to increase the senses in the rest of the body
  • Floggers, whips, canes to enhance the sensation in your body and bring you into subspace
  • Talons for a very pleasurable sensation to get you into your body

Tech, games and furniture

  • Introducing tech for those who want to increase the connection from abroad
  • Board games to spice up your entertainment for two or more
  • Sex furniture to ease into new positions you never thought possible
  • Using Porn for what it is intended – entertainment, not education